Mental health professionals have long debated about the true nature of
falling in love. An article authored by Judy Foreman published in Boston Globe
June 15, 2009, “Romance + Attraction + Oxytocin = Love, Can science tell us why
we fall, and stay, in love?” examines this issue. The article reports on a
study by researchers at the University in Stony Brook.The
researchers studied, “…..a handful of young people who had just fallen madly in
love volunteered to have their brains scanned to see what areas were active
when they looked at a picture of their sweetheart…. In the same lab, older
volunteers who claimed to still be intensely in love after two decades of
marriage participated in the same experiment.” The results of the experiments
were very interesting. In the first
experiment, “….The brain areas that "lit up" were precisely those
known to be rich in a powerful "feel good" chemical, dopamine -- the
substance that brain cells release in response to cocaine and nicotine.
Dopamine is the key chemical in the brain's "reward system," a
network of cells associated with pleasure -- and addiction.” In the second
experiment, “…The same brain areas lit up, showing that, at least in some lucky
couples, that honeymoon feeling can last. But in these folks, other areas lit
up, too -- those rich in oxytocin, the "cuddling" chemical that helps
new mothers make milk and bond with their babies, is secreted by both sexes
during orgasm, and that, in animals, has been linked to monogamy and long-term
attachment.” There are several important implications of these studies. First,
the results of these studies confirm that falling in love is very of a powerful
brain chemical reaction driven primarily by dopamine. Second, long-lasting love
is driven by both dopamine and oxytocin. Third, intense falling in love can,
from the brain’s point of view, be quite similar to developing an intense
addiction to cocaine or nicotine. Fourth, falling out of love can be a very
painful experience akin to going “cold turkey” from a powerful addiction.
Fifth, mental health professionals who treat individuals recovering from an
intense love affair may help clients understand the “withdrawal” will take
awhile but they will eventually recover. Sixth, these research insights may
help mental health professionals better understand the intense attachment
stalkers have to their objects of interest. Seventh, these research insights
may also lead one day to the development of better medicines to help those
whose “love libido” as declined through age or the disease process. The author
states, “…In fact, a study published this year in Biological Psychiatry…shows
that oxytocin may help human couples get along better. Swiss researchers gave
47 couples a nasal spray containing either oxytocin or a placebo. The couples
then participated in a videotaped "conflict" discussion. Those that
got oxytocin exhibited more positive and less negative behavior than those
given the placebo. Oxytocin was also linked to lower secretion of cortisol, a
stress hormone.” The author concludes,
“….Whether this love chemistry will pan out in the new research is still an
open question. In the meantime, remember those prairie voles - they get what
Fisher calls "life's greatest prize - an enduring mate and partner."
The Bottom Line: The results of this study suggests that
intense feelings of love are driven by the powerful brain chemicals.
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